This, in fact, is very, very simple. You need to find something that makes your life rich, full, happy. It does not matter what exactly it will be. It can be one big deal, 2 big deals, 2 small and one big, 10 small, 50 small, replacing each other, or no cases at all. The only important thing is that it gives you a feeling of inner fullness, pleasant, saturated satisfaction.
The difficulty of living this way is only that there are standards in society that parents and teachers, and acquaintances, impose. And if you do not conform to these standards, then many will begin to treat you negatively, they will condemn and consider a failure. It's nice, of course, to consider yourself a person who does not care about society, but in reality to overcome dependence on someone else's opinion is very difficult. And you can easily begin to consider yourself a failure, because others see you that way. If these problems are solved, then this complexity will end.
No exit. If you want a happy life, you'll have to send all those who condemn and force your opinion to the devil and get an understanding that a loser is not someone who does not have a car, and not someone who has not graduated from college or made a career, could not find something that would make him happy.
And you in what do you find the meaning of life?
